I’ve seen so many girls get caught up in petty drama, and then just keep feeding it. I’ve seen so many girls push themselves into more and more drama in relationships, in work environments, at school and just about everywhere. I am not talking about all women here, and I am not sure if men do this is much, maybe they do.

My experience has been with lots of girls that have the answers right in front of their eyes, sometimes the thing to do is leave a bad relationship, sometimes it’s best to just drop it and move on. I know they can see what is needed, they just don’t. So many times I have spent time listening to women you know the answer, they often even say it, but they just keep right on feeding the drama rather than moving on to more positive situations.

There’s a few good books out there that I now give to girls who refuse to change, rather than wasting so much time listening to an encouraging a reaffirmation of drama, I let them read and choose for themselves.

A couple of my favorites include:

It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy

No More Drama: Nine Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown Into a Breakthrough

Study finds chocolate good for the heart
Houston Chronicle - 1 hour ago
By LINDSEY TANNER AP Dr. Laura Svetkey, director of Duke University’s Hypertension Center stressed that the study results should not be viewed as license to gorge on chocolate.
Tiny amounts of dark chocolate lower blood pressure F

I believe there have been other positive benefits found with chocolate, or at least some of the ingredients of chocolate and I think dark chocolate especially. But I do believe the fine print in all of these article stipulates that a small amount can be good for you and beneficial in some ways, but lot’s of chocolate can do bad things to you too. When I spent a winter gorging on my favorite sweets I found that come spring time I did not get as much ass as my fellow, thinner, girlfriends were getting, which made me want to eat more chocolate, and there the downward spiral began.

Something about one of the chemicals in chocolate that gives you a happy, almost “in love feeling”, like everything is okay. I think it is called something like DL-Phenalynine. This stuff is what makes me crave the candy so bad, but I recently found it is available in capsule form from the health food store, and now I am getting my good feelings without the extra calories.

More about the ingredients of my favorite snack food. - wikipedia chocolate entry

In this dating story I see the mistake in it before the guy even got into it. This is from an adult dating site I was emailed about recently. I can’t wait to see what other dating stories come out on this open blog forum.

It seems to me that dating today is easier online, but I guess there are still plenty of bridges to cross to make it from the online single scene into someone’s bedroom. Don’t screw up a possibly good relationship by bring old baggage into the date with you!

Most of the adult themed blogging portals I found seem to be focused on free porn pics and videos, while I’m okay with that, most of the themed surrounding the blogs at those places appear to be a bit cluttered for my taste. So I kept looking and I found this place that does free adult blogs using the worpdress back end. This had me excited of course, especially since I am already familiar with the wordpress platform, and I think it makes posting easy and quick.

So I am prepping some old papers to be typed into a blog, perhaps I’ll make it into a little dirty story book as Steph and I had always joked around about. If I could only get an artists to do up some erotic artwork to blend into the book, maybe we could publish a little pillow book.

Steph had suggested the self publishing options presented in this blog post, does anyone else have any ideas for artists that would work pro bono and split any profits? It really could be a good book! Damn you Stephanie for getting my hopes up!

So I did some looking around, back in the day I would just look into some yahoo chat rooms to find some cyber giggles, some of my geekier friends swear by irc, but I had to know if there were anything big and new going on in the  digital text sex world, so I did some searching and found this adult chat site, it has a few links and reviews to some sex chat place I had not heard of before.

So I am looking into these sites and I did find some free text based rooms, but what really amazed me is how all of these girls (and some guys / couples too) - were all online live sharing webcam sex, right now. I didn’t believe it at first, I thought these were just ads, but when I clicked over to see, they were all really online, live, sharing their web cams right then.

There had to be several hundred girls sharing live sex chat cams at this one minute that I was looking into the various pages in the sex cam networks. There is no telling how many other girls were sharing dirty online play time in private chat rooms through these networks. I am amazed at how many different women were all ready and willing to give one on one video sex.

I guess it happens twenty four hours a day, there are a ton of girls doing it, how in the world do we have so many women in need of money so bad that there are thousands of girls getting naked live on cam all day and all night?

Now if we can just get more men to read it!

I think it is an unusually cool idea to consider gemstones as currency. If everyone was trading gemstones much like the tribes in Africa used beads, as money, then we would have beautiful money rather than this dirty paper we have to carry around, and wewouldn’t have to worry about finding an ATM all the time!

“In big money cases the White factor has more than doubled the levels of award and it has been said by many that London has become the divorce capital of the world for aspiring wives,” the Court of Appeal said. “Whether this is a desirable result needs to be considered.”

The Charman ruling could be dwarfed by former Beatle Paul McCartney’s split with his second wife, Heather Mills McCartney. Paul McCartney’s wealth is reputed to be around $1.6 billion — but he was already very rich before his second marriage.

Another case that may be more relevant to McCartney is that of Melissa Miller, an American who won a $9.9 million settlement after a 33-month marriage — or about 15 percent of her ex-husband’s assets.

Lord Nicholls, one of five judges who heard that case, noted that Melissa Miller had enjoyed a pampered lifestyle, and “that was not a standard of living the wife would be likely to achieve for herself,” he said.

Despite the appeals court’s concern about London becoming a divorce capital, there are richer pickings in the United States.

Forbes.com speculated last month that the McCartneys will come in at No. 6 on the most expensive celebrity divorce list, at $60 million.

This world is a very strange place these days. With cases like the Anna Nicole smith case and other big name, bigger money marriages, divorces and other scandals, it seems that real life has become crazier than some of the soap operas plaguing the airwaves today.

When are people going to realize that enough is enough and quite whining and fighting for 15 million when 10 million would surely take care of you for some time. Please, girls, you are making us all look bad!

From this article via yahoo it seems that choas is erupting in Italy with dumps completely full and trah that has not been collected in weeks, people are burning garbage that contains lethal chemicals and they probably don’t even know that they are making a dire situation even worse. The mob mentalitly and burning cities, all over garbage? Is this really 2007 we are living in?

The cell phone thing is what really got me started on this rant, I was thinking about the adult dating options availabale today and was doing a little research when I came across a blog that is all about mobile dating tech, and found that this crushorfsh site got 100,000 people to sign up in 90 days. That is a lot of people engaging in this hedonsitic, materialistic, shallow type of service, but am I the minority, am I the one out of a million that shuns this whole go mentality that is going around today? From the numbers I’ve seen I am starting to get scared that the moral America I grew up to love has grown out of love with moral and just seems fixated on jack ass manical media, and that mentality seems to be going far beyond the 90 minutes of a DVD, but extending into life all around us.