Vicky Branson

I have had my fill with the stupid girls. You know the ones, the girls that live their miserable lives to suck other people into their misery. You know I use to spend a lot of time talking and listening to girls that are having problems. Then I realized something that mom said a long time ago is true most of the time; “people who need advice won’t take it, and people you take advice usually don’t need it.”

I’ve seen so many girls get caught up in petty drama, and then just keep feeding it. I’ve seen so many girls push themselves into more and more drama in relationships, in work environments, at school and just about everywhere. I am not talking about all women here, and I am not sure if men do this is much, maybe they do.

My experience has been with lots of girls that have the answers right in front of their eyes, sometimes the thing to do is leave a bad relationship, sometimes it’s best to just drop it and move on. I know they can see what is needed, they just don’t. So many times I have spent time listening to women you know the answer, they often even say it, but they just keep right on feeding the drama rather than moving on to more positive situations.

There’s a few good books out there that I now give to girls who refuse to change, rather than wasting so much time listening to an encouraging a reaffirmation of drama, I let them read and choose for themselves.

A couple of my favorites include:

It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy

No More Drama: Nine Simple Steps to Transforming a Breakdown Into a Breakthrough